How to Elope

Frequently Asked Questions About Eloping

It depends on where you’re eloping. Many public lands, like national and state parks, require a special use permit for ceremonies. Private locations may have different rules. This is a normal part of elopement planning — and something that’s much easier than most couples expect.

That’s incredibly common. Many couples elope first, then host a dinner, reception, or celebration later on their own terms. Eloping doesn’t mean skipping celebration — it just means separating it from the pressure of a traditional wedding day.

Absolutely. While elopements are typically 15 people or less, many couples include a few close family or friends. Whether it’s just the two of you or a handful of loved ones, I’ll help plan a day that feels personal, relaxed, and true to you.  You can even bring your dog if you want! 

Couples with 20+ guests is considered a "micro wedding" and will need to find a traditional wedding photographer as my focus is intimate elopements.

Yes. Elopements are legally binding weddings, just like traditional ones. You’ll still need a marriage license and to follow the legal requirements for where you’re getting married — the difference is how you choose to experience the day.

Is an elopement a real wedding?

Can we bring guests to our elopement?

Do we need permits to elope?

How far in advance should we plan our elopement?

Some elopements come together in a few weeks, while others are planned a year or more in advance. Availability, location, permits, and travel all play a role. If you have a specific season or date in mind, earlier planning gives you more flexibility — but last-minute elopements are absolutely possible.

What if the weather doesn’t cooperate?

Weather is part of the adventure — especially for outdoor elopements. Having a backup plan (or two) is key. This might mean an alternate location, adjusting the timeline, or embracing the mood that comes with changing conditions.

Can we still do traditional things like a first dance or cake?

Yes. Eloping doesn’t mean giving up meaningful moments — it means choosing the ones that matter to you. Many couples include a first dance, a toast, cutting a small cake, or reading letters to each other during their elopement day.

Do we have to hike to elope?

Not at all. While some couples love hiking elopements, others prefer short walks, overlooks, or easily accessible locations. Your elopement should match your comfort level, not push you into something that doesn’t feel right.

Is eloping actually less stressful than a big wedding?

Yes. Elopements remove a lot of pressure — fewer logistics, fewer expectations, and more freedom to focus on each other. With the right planning support, the process can feel calm, intentional, and even fun.

What if we want to celebrate later with friends and family?

Not at all. Most of my couples come to me with just a general idea, like “we love the mountains” or “we want a lake view.” Once we chat, I’ll send personalized location options based on your vision, the season, and what kind of experience you want.

Do we need to have a location picked before reaching out?

Eloping with Kristin Smith Photography

A Simple, Intentional Way to Plan an Elopement That Actually Feels Like You

As your elopement photographer and planner, I don’t just show up on the day —
I help you shape the entire experience from the beginning.

These steps from my elopement guide are here to give you clarity, direction, and confidence — even if you don’t have everything figured out yet.

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