If you’ve been wondering what is an elopement, you’re not alone. The meaning of eloping has evolved a lot over the years and today, elopements look very different than the secret courthouse weddings people imagine.
Modern elopements are intentional, meaningful, and centered around the couple — not traditions, timelines, or expectations that don’t fit. Let’s break it down.
So… What Is an Elopement?
At its core, an elopement is an intimate wedding experience focused on the couple, rather than a large guest list or formal production.
Elopements can include:
- Just the two of you
- A small group of close family or friends (usually under 15–20 people)
- A meaningful location instead of a traditional venue
- A relaxed, experience-driven timeline
Unlike traditional weddings, elopements are less about hosting and more about being present. The day unfolds at a slower pace, giving you space to actually enjoy getting married.
Common Myths About Eloping
A big misconception when people ask about elopements is that it means:
- Running away without telling anyone
- Skipping meaningful moments
- Doing things “last minute” or without intention
That couldn’t be further from the truth.
Most elopements are thoughtfully planned, from locations and permits to timelines and personal details. The difference is that the focus stays on you, not on managing a crowd or following rigid traditions.
Why More Couples Are Choosing Elopements
Couples often choose elopements because they want:
- A stress-free wedding day
- A more intimate and emotional experience
- Stunning outdoor locations
- Flexibility and freedom
- A wedding that actually feels like them
Elopements allow you to trade packed schedules and expectations for intention, connection, and experience.
What an Elopement Day Can Look Like
Your day can look however you want it to — but many include:
- Getting ready together or separately
- A first look
- A quiet ceremony
- Exploring beautiful locations
- A picnic, cake cutting, or champagne toast
- Sunset portraits
There’s no rush.
No pressure.
Just space to soak it all in.
How to Know if Eloping Is Right for You
If you’re already wondering about eloping, you already be crave something different, something more personal, calm, and meaningful.
Elopements are perfect for couples who want their wedding day to feel intentional, emotionally grounded, and genuinely joyful.
There’s no “right” way to get married — but there is a right way for you.
Ready to Create Your Own Epic Elopement?
If you’re dreaming of an epic intimate wedding without the chaos of a traditional wedding — I’d love to help you plan a day that actually feels good.
👉 Reach out through my contact form to start planning and let’s create something intentional, relaxed, and unforgettable.
I’ll make sure your day feels like you.
Hey I’m Kristin!
I’m a California elopement photographer and planner who knows all the best locations to elope in. I will help you with location scouting, planning, navigating permits, timeline creation, what to do, and of course, epic photography!
Ready to make the most of your wedding day?
Let’s plan something unforgettable!
Helpful Elopement Resources
Why Couples Are Eloping: A More Intentional Way to Get Married
Mountain Elopement | Epic California Mountain Wedding Inspiration
Eloping Then Having a Wedding: How to Do Both and Love Every Minute
Elopement Dress: How to Pick the Perfect One
Elopement Packages All Inclusive
Elopement Planning Checklist
How to Include Your Dog in Your Elopement
Elopements – What Shots to Expect from Me
How to Elope in Lake Tahoe
How to Get Married in Yosemite: Permit Guide
